So, you've met someone and things are getting interesting.
As an astrology addict, you may feel the urge to prepare a synastry chart, but then, oh no! All those red lines! And you like each other, so how could it be?
Does a Neptune square mean you're just fantasizing? Does a Saturn opposition mean you'll be criticized and diminished?
-Take a deep breath, my dear.
Although it's tempting to solely rely on a few aspects between the planets in synastry, it's important not to do so. No single aspect or placement can fully determine the success or failure of a partnership. While certain aspects in synastry may suggest potential challenges or areas of tension, it's crucial to consider the broader context of the charts and the timing of the relationship.
In other words, it's essential to never rely solely on a couple of aspects to make predictions about the future of a relationship.
Instead, it's important to look at the entire chart, including the natal charts of both individuals and any relevant transits or progressions, to gain a more complete understanding of the dynamics at play.
For example, although a challenging aspect like Venus square Pluto may suggest potential issues with power struggles and possessiveness in a relationship, other factors in the astrological chart may indicate a strong emotional connection or a willingness to work through challenges together.
Harmonious aspects like Sun trine Moon may indicate a deep sense of understanding and compatibility, while aspects like Moon trine or sextile Venus are known for their forgiving nature. Ultimately, the success of any relationship depends on a multitude of factors, including effective communication, mutual trust, respect, and shared values. While astrology can offer valuable insights into the dynamics between two individuals, it's important to remember that no single aspect or placement can fully determine the outcome of a relationship.
By taking a holistic approach and considering all of the factors at play, we can gain a more nuanced understanding of the potential challenges and opportunities in any partnership.
To make the point clear, Here're some famous couples who have or had difficult aspects in their synastry charts but still stayed together and made it work:
Kate Middleton (Jan 9, 1982) and Prince William (Jun 21, 1982)
Moon Square Mars, Saturn Square Moon, Saturn Square Sun...
Together since 2007, married since 2011, three children.
Joanne Woodward (Feb 27, 1930) and Paul Newman (Jan 26, 1925)
Mars Square Pluto, Moon Opposite Neptune, Venus Square Uranus, Saturn Square Mars..
Married for 50 years until Newman died. Had three children.
Ellen DeGeneres (Jan 26, 1958) and Portia de Rossi (Jan 31, 1973)
Moon Square Venus, Moon opposite Neptune, Sun Square Neptune, Ascendant Square Saturn, Ascendant Square Neptune...
Together since 2004, married since 2008.
Mila Kunis (Aug 14, 1983) and Ashton Kutcher (Feb 7, 1978)
Mars Square Pluto, Uranus Square Sun, Mars Square Saturn, Mercury square Neptune...
Together since 2012, married since 2015, two children.
Beyoncé Knowles (Sep 4, 1981) and Jay-Z (Dec 4, 1969)
Sun Square Sun, Mars Square Moon, Saturn Square Mars, Mars Square Uranus, Ascendant Square Neptune..
Together since 2001, married since 2008, three children.
Rita Wilson (Oct 26, 1956) and Tom Hanks (Jul 9, 1956)
Venus Square Venus, Moon Square Neptune, Saturn Square Pluto (DW), Moon Conjunct Uranus,Uranus Square Sun...
Together since 1985, married since 1988, two children.
So, never rely on just a couple of aspects to determine relationship fate!
In fact, it's common to find challenging aspects in the synastry of long-term couples. A good and balanced synastry chart includes some conflicts or difficulties, as they can provide opportunities for growth and evolution within the relationship.
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